Subeksha Khadka
Actor, Emcee & Miss Nepal International 2012
I really think it comes down to doing the fundamentals right:
- Love – We absolutely adore each other! We are our favorites! Aswasan Joshi and I are so in love, and we treasure and value what we have built together a lot. We are each other’s biggest fans. We support each other in anything we do and we want the best for both of us – together and in our respective careers.
- Trust – We have such a solid footing – we trust each other no matter what! We both know how much we mean to each other and how incredibly we are happy together. We are immensely proud of the trust we have for each other. We think trust is paramount!
- Communication – We make sure we talk to each other twice every day (at the very least)! We always make time for each other – no matter how busy we are. And the best thing is that when we absolutely cannot get on FaceTime, we let each other know! We are always overtly communicative and expressive about how we are feeling and how our days went. We think that helps a lot!
- Planning- We always know when we are going to see each other next. We always plan and have something to look forward to! We are very meticulous about planning – be it the next time AJ comes home, or when I visit him in New York City, or when we plan for a holiday somewhere else! We think that’s imperative – it keeps us excited and we look forward to the day we get to hug each other after being away for a while. Overall, we couldn’t have done it if it weren’t for the way we feel for each other. We have been doing long-distance for three years now – there has never been a day we didn’t feel loved or cared for. We have shared a promise for life – we are not going to let each other down. When you know, you know!
Sanjay Silwal Gupta
Media Personality & CEO,
Vyasa Media Network
The meaning of love has certainly changed over the years and relationships have become trickier. Compared to before, long-distance relationships have become more common but also more believable than before. For me, love and relationships should be pure and unconditional with no barriers or hooks attached to them. It isn’t a give-and-take situation but what makes the relationship meaningful to you. So how does it even work when it comes to long-distance relationships?
A key aspect of keeping any relationship alive, especially a long-distance one, is trust. That includes having clear communication between both partners. A set of distinct priorities and boundaries need to be discussed so that both of you are on the same page. It can demand compromise as well. There needs to be a space where your partner can share their worries and doubts as well. So, in this case dedicating enough time to your partner is also important to keep the relationship. It is difficult to spend time with your partner when physically you are miles away from them. But now it’s so much easier to connect with your partner and to spend time with them. Making time for your partner virtually helps maintain and build trust as you both are showing priority to the relationship as well.
Long-distance relationship can be difficult but as long as you are able to maintain that trust and love you have for one another, it is possible to make it work and make the relationship stronger than ever.
Varun Kamra
Director of Sales and Marketing, Kathmandu Marriott Hotel
Being the DOSM at Marriott Kathmandu has certainly brought its share of challenges, including the distance between my wife and me. However, I believe that distance should never be a barrier to love, but rather an opportunity for growth and deeper connection.
In our case, communication is the cornerstone of our relationship. Regular video calls, surprise virtual dates, and sharing our daily experiences bridge the physical gap, making us feel close despite the miles. Additionally, we prioritise planning visits and creating future milestones together, keeping the flame of anticipation alive.
Trust, understanding, and unwavering support are the pillars that uphold our relationship. We celebrate each other’s achievements, no matter how small, and navigate challenges as a united team.
This journey has not only strengthened our bond but has also taught us the importance of resilience and gratitude. While the physical distance may be challenging, it has become an integral part of our love story, adding depth and appreciation for the moments we share. I am grateful for the opportunity to inspire others with our story and showcase the power of love that transcends boundaries.
Sangita Puri
National Director, Miss Universe Nepal 2024
Every single person has a different definition of love. For some people being together and spending more time is love, for some people caring and treating them good is love. But for me love is when you are with someone, you feel complete. Love is all about acceptance of another person without any judgement which teaches you to grow together. You can trust that person blindly from your heart.
Long distance relationships can be challenging, but if you are serious about the relationship you make the effort.
Communication is the most important aspect in keeping our relationship alive. We talk about every little thing going on with a focus on staying positive. Its not always easy, but there are lots of ways to make long distance relationships work like having an emotional connection, being supportive and staying connected. FaceTime, prioritising each other’s feelings, surprising each other with gifts and getting romantic virtually. Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world which makes us complete.
Ashmita Kandel
Makeup Artist
Long-distance relationships can be challenging for anyone, I have experienced feelings of loneliness, longing, and difficulty with communication. It requires work and I learnt to prioritise open and honest communication, trust, and finding ways to stay connected despite the physical distance. Additionally, having a support system of friends and loved ones is invaluable with technology bridging the gap. While people may doubt their sustainability, the truth is that with dedication, communication, and trust, long-distance relationships can not only survive but thrive.
Regular communication not only helps in sharing daily experiences but also fosters emotional intimacy making partners feel connected despite being miles apart. Moreover, distance can strengthen the bond between partners. We learned to appreciate each other’s presence more deeply. With limited opportunities for physical interaction, I had to trust my partner. This trust was built over time and we have emerged stronger than ever.
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