Praphul Ghimire
IT Entrepreneur
Loyalty in a relationship can be challenging. With so many distractions around us, it’s easy to think we might find someone even better. If we lack self-control and allow our emotions to sway us, remaining faithful becomes even more difficult. Today’s culture often encourages people to seek alternatives rather than addressing their insecurities and issues within their relationships. The initial charm between two people is captivating, but once the honeymoon phase fades, things can feel monotonous. Maintaining that spark requires continuous effort; without it, it’s tempting to seek excitement elsewhere.
Suraj Khadgi
Founder & CEO, Verside Productions
People can be unfaithful for various reason, such as a lack of emotional fulfillment, seeking novelty, or unresolved personal issues. Often, it’s less about the partner and more about the individual’s internal struggles or unmet needs. In many cases, infidelity can be a symptom of deeper problems within a relationship such as poor communication, lack of intimacy, or unresolved conflicts. When these issues go unaddressed, some individuals may turn to others as a way to cope, fill a void, or experience the connection they feel is missing. This doesn’t justify the behaviour, but it highlights how complex the motivations can be.
Additionally, some people may engage in affairs due to impulsivity, low self-esteem, or a desire for external validation. They might be seeking excitement, wanting to feel desired, or simply responding to an opportunity that arises unexpectedly.
Understanding why infidelity happens often requires looking beyond the surface and examining the broader context of the individual’s personal history and relationship patterns. There’s also a social and cultural dimension to consider. Modern culture, with its focus on instant gratification and fewer social taboos, sometimes promotes infidelity as an acceptable or exciting alternative. Media portrayals and the rise of dating apps have made it easier for people to find secret connections, complicating what once was a more defined boundary in relationships. Finally, infidelity can sometimes reflect unmet personal needs that are unrelated to the partner or the relationship itself.
For some, cheating is driven by a desire for self-discovery, thrill-seeking, or a search for a new identity. These deeper motivations show that unfaithfulness can often be less about the other person and more about the individual grappling with personal dissatisfaction or confusion about their own desires.
Govinda Raj Nepal
Journalist
People can be unfaithful in relationships for a variety of complex reasons. One major reason is emotional dissatisfaction. When one partner feels neglected, undervalued, or emotionally disconnected, they may seek attention and intimacy outside the relationship. Emotional needs are just as vital as physical ones, and when they aren’t met, unfaithfulness can seem like a temporary solution to those unmet desires. Another reason is a communication gap. Misunderstandings can create a rift between partners. Instead of openly discussing their needs, concerns or dissatisfaction, some people may turn to someone else who appears more understanding or attentive. Boredom or a desire for excitement can also lead to unfaithfulness. External factors such as temptation, stress, or societal influences can contribute as well. Narratives that glorify infidelity or normalise casual relationships might shape an individual’s views on fidelity. Stress from work, finances, or life changes can push someone toward infidelity as a coping mechanism. Ultimately, unfaithfulness often stems from unresolved emotional or psychological needs. Addressing these underlying issues through open communication, trust-building, and mutual effort can help prevent it and foster healthier, more faithful relationships.
Sujan Zimba
Comedian, Singer & Artist
In Nepal, societal dynamics have shifted significantly compared to the past, influenced heavily by Western culture. Today, many people prioritise appearances and wealth when choosing a partner. The value systems have changed; for instance, boys often seek partners who are both attractive and financially stable. Teenage love, however, tends to be pure. Based on observations, relationships that begin during adolescence and lead to marriage often have lasting bonds, though exceptions exist.
Reflecting on our parents’ generation, their relationships were built on resilience and commitment. Despite disagreements, they rarely abandoned their partners. Back then, technology was not advanced, and love was expressed through rare but cherished gestures like writing letters which helped sustain relationships. In contrast, modern relationships often lack the same depth of understanding and respect for each other’s thoughts and emotions. While people claim to want a partner who understands them, selfishness and a lack of mutual regard are common. Although infidelity is not justifiable, some reasons behind it can be understood in the context of how relationships have evolved.
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