Nishan Rai
Sales and Marketing Manager – Sanctuary Nepal
Love, to me, isn’t something you chase—it’s something you stumble upon in the wild, beautiful moments of life. I’ve never believed in rigid timelines or formulas; instead, I trust in the magic of spontaneity, in letting things unfold naturally. Some of the best connections happen when you’re least expecting them—over a shared laugh, an unplanned adventure, or a quiet moment that lingers longer than it should.
I find happiness in small things, in slow time. Love, for me, isn’t about grand declarations but the way someone makes the ordinary feel extraordinary. It’s in stolen glances, in the rhythm of easy conversations, in the feeling of truly being seen.
I don’t believe love is meant to be tamed—it’s wild, like me. To tame me, hitherto undone, takes fat lips, and a tongue like the devil’s. Embracing the raw, unfiltered moments, letting go of control, and being open to wherever the journey takes you.
Almoda Rana Uprety
Singer
Well, let’s just say trial and error should be my middle name. A millennial man trying to find love in a world where social media apps feel more like playing video games than connecting with actual humans. Swipe left, swipe right—it’s basically cardio for my thumb at this point.
And the online love gurus don’t help either where Men gurus are preaching on being the Alphas & the Sigmas. On the flip side, feminine relationship counsellors are preaching everything man-ish being toxic masculinity and narcissism. (we need another write up session for the other genders, in order to maintain “Gender Neutrality”). One minute one deep-dives into someone’s vacation reels (wow, you totally climbed that mountain for inner peace, not likes), and the next, I’m questioning if my feed needs more candid beach shots to compete, hoping it not to be a ‘cringe’.
Relationships? Oh, those are tricky. It’s hard to build something lasting when everyone’s got one foot in and the other on Tinder. Plus, Gen Z and their stories of the situation-ships, the Honey Traps, the Golddiggers, the Sugar Daddies, the very prevalent hypergamy & the expensive alimonies. How can one forget the Johnny-Amber case – pretty nasty, when the loved one literally pooped on the bed, that must smell Toxic, reminds me of the movie ‘Gone Girl’ by David Fincher. Meanwhile, Gen Alpha is growing up thinking AI might be their ‘soulmate’, wait! there’s an updated lingo for it – ‘twin flames’ Right! See! I’m “with it” with the ever-changing landscape of trends. And there are the boomers – ‘Hamro pala ma esto hunthyo !’ Everyone shares the experience, needless to explain.
My approach? Somewhere between cautious optimism, I’m kind of done pretending that I’m perfect. I’ll confess my love for ‘Chhoila Chiura’ and ‘Momo’, on meet one. Because in this chaotic era of ‘Techno- feudalism’ (Big Jargon right!), the real win isn’t finding “the one.” It’s finding someone who laughs at your bad jokes and sticks around for the glitchy parts. The one who will accept you with your flaws, might be the one you’re looking for.
Dhuksang lama
Model
Love can be in many forms and each individual has their own view to love. Love to me is a powerful force that shapes our lives in profound ways. It’s both a feeling and an action something that can be deeply emotional, yet requires intention and effort to nurture. I think love thrives on mutual respect, understanding, and vulnerability. When you love someone, you’re not just invested in their happiness, but in their growth and well-being. It’s about creating a space where both people can show up as their truest selves, even if that means facing challenges or discomfort together. At the same time, love isn’t always smooth or easy. It can be complicated, requiring patience and communication. I believe that love is also about acceptance not just of the other person’s strengths, but their flaws and imperfections too. It’s a balance of giving and receiving, and often involves learning how to navigate differences without compromising individual identity. I like to address that, love teaches us about empathy, connection, and the importance of being present for one another. Whether it’s through romantic relationships, family bonds, or friendships, it’s the deep emotional ties we form with others that often bring the most meaning to our lives.
Shushank Shrestha
Sculptor
For me, my approach to find love is in the work I make. To discover connections with ideas, materials, me, humor – I’m playful in the act of creation. It is not always immediate; my approach unfolds in different ways. Sometimes, inspiration strikes effortlessly, like an unspoken understanding between two elements coming together in harmony. Often it takes time. I research, experiment, I do drawings of it and immerse myself until something resonates. Overthink a lot! Love in art is about feeling a spark that turns into passion, a form that takes on meaning. For me it is allowing myself to be open, playful, and curious. To embrace both accidents and intentional choices. Whether I’m sculpting, drawing, painting, glazing, or storytelling, I find love in the act of making. I do not seek love as an outcome; I find it in the process itself. Creating is where I feel most alive, most connected, and most at home.
Aman KC
Dj
My Approach to Finding Love As a DJ, my world revolves around music, energy, and connections. I believe love, much like music, is about finding the right rhythm—someone who vibes with your energy and complements your journey. In the chaos of nightlife, real connections can be rare, but I value authenticity above all. For me, love isn’t about searching; it’s about discovering—through shared experiences, deep conversations, and mutual understanding. I appreciate someone who understands my lifestyle, late nights, and passion for music, yet adds balance to my life. Chemistry matters, but so does respect and emotional depth. I believe love should feel effortless, like a perfectly mixed track—where both individuals sync naturally. It’s not just about grand gestures but the little moments that make life feel more alive. At the end of the day, love, like music, should make you feel something real.
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