Ishan Pandey, Founder, Paawan Sweets
In my experience, men technically get a say but only after the wife has already made 90% of the decisions. At home, my wife knew exactly what she wanted from the start. She had the colours, the furniture style, the lighting and even the cushions planned out long before I entered the chat. I usually gave my opinion, but let’s be honest, it rarely changed anything.
Where I did make a real contribution was in the parts no one sees but everyone depends on. The smart home setup, the security system, the wiring, the gadgets and all the behind-the-wall magic were completely my department. She designed the home, and I made sure it actually worked the way she imagined. If the lights turn on smoothly or the cameras behave, that is where my “interior influence” shows up.
So yes, men get a say, just not in the decorative universe. My wife brought the vision, and I provided the backbone. It is a good balance. She made the house beautiful, and I made sure it runs without blowing a fuse.
Ajar Shrestha, Creative Head, Vivid Interiors
Absolutely, men do have a say in home interiors! From my experience as an interior designer, men are definitely involved in the overall theme and functionality of a space. While women might dive into the finer details like how the kitchen items are placed, how drawers are organised, or which tiny knobs and handles perfectly complement the cabinetry, men often have strong preferences when it comes to their own spaces like wardrobes, accessory management, and even the layout of their entertainment areas.
Plus, they often take charge of spaces they love to enjoy, like the living room or a bar area. It is not just about aesthetics; men bring their perspectives into the design discussions, ensuring that every detail is practical and future-proof. They also tend to have a subtle desire to showcase their personal spaces when friends and family come over, reflecting their unique taste and style. Men are genuinely, actively, and sometimes surprisingly passionately part of the design journey!
Alok Thapa
Filmmaker & Voiceover Artist
I believe men today are far more vocal about what they want in their home interiors, and many genuinely enjoy shaping their own spaces. It feels increasingly normal for men to express personal preferences, especially when it comes to the place where they unwind after long days. That sense of ownership does not need to extend to an entire home; even creating one room that feels truly personal can make a meaningful difference.
When I was growing up, my room reflected the classic nineties setup: band posters plastered on every wall, oversized speakers dominating the layout, and a general sense of energetic chaos. As I have gotten older and, hopefully, a bit more “mature,” my style has shifted significantly. I now gravitate toward minimalism, valuing clean lines and open space. A calmer environment helps quiet my overactive mind, offering a small sanctuary where I can reset and think more clearly every single day.
Hemanta Shah, Chairperson, NextGen Interiors & Architects
Traditionally, home interiors were considered a woman’s domain. Men usually picked the recliner and the size of the TV, and that was the end of their involvement. But today’s design world looks very different. Men are more engaged, more design-conscious, and far more invested in how their space reflects their personality and lifestyle.
At Nextgen Interiors & Architects, we have seen the shift firsthand. Couples walk in with Pinterest boards from both sides; his might be filled with bold textures and tech-driven ideas, while hers leans into comfort, light, and elegance. When those perspectives merge, the result is a beautifully balanced home: stylish yet functional, bold yet cozy.
So yes, men do get a say. Not just in theory, but in true creative collaboration. The modern home is no longer one voice dominating the conversation; it is a dialogue. When both voices are respected, the interior becomes a shared story, not just a decorated space. Because the best homes are not designed by one person’s taste; they are designed by the people who live in them.
Miyush Maharjan, Architect, 13 Step Design
It is not really about gender; it is about interest, personality and priorities. In residential projects, people naturally gravitate toward the aspects of design they feel more confident or connected with. Many men show stronger engagement in the technical and functional aspects of a home: layout planning, furniture dimensions, budget allocation, construction details, and the durability or performance of materials. These decisions often align with practicality, long-term value, and structural logic, which some men are more comfortable evaluating.
On the other hand, elements such as colour palettes, soft furnishings, décor selections, and styling require a different kind of sensitivity; one that deals with mood, visual harmony, and aesthetic intuition. Many men tend to step back in these areas not because they lack a voice, but because they may feel they do not have the same level of expertise, interest, or imagination for these details. As a result, they often defer to the partner or family member who shows stronger enthusiasm and confidence in these choices.
Ultimately, the balance of decision-making has less to do with male or female roles and more to do with where each person’s strengths, tastes, and decision-making comfort naturally lie. In the best designed homes, both sides contribute to the areas they care about most, creating a space that is functional, beautiful and reflective of the people who live in it.
